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CONTENTS
Issue 13
A note from the Editor
New protection for on-line shoppers
Affiliate Schemes
Procrastination Eradication
This Month's Top Ten
Reasons People Don't Live Their Dreams
Become a Practical Dreamer - and find success
Book Review
Websites for Homeworking Parents
Copyright, disclaimer and Subscription Information
BOOK REVIEW

Build Your Own Rainbow
by Barry Hopson and Mike Scally
This is an old favourite of mine - it's a unique workbook which includes detailed exercises designed to analyse your current work values and transferable skills and will help you plan your personal and career objectives.

The book has been a bestseller for several years, and was adopted by the Open University for one of its courses.

So if you are wondering who you are post-parenthood - this could help you work it out!!

We've also got some great practical titles on procrastination, dreaming and success, including Paul and Sarah's new book and The Procrastinator's Guide to Success with its 'brain dump' of 'gut-wrenchers'.

Check out our bookshopfor the full list.
WEBSITES FOR HOMEWORKING PARENTS
How to develop a website using affiliate schemes - written with parents in mind.
Have you seen Oprah's Homeward Bound website? A neat title for a homeworking channel.
Try the Home Office Assessment quiz
You read the extract from Paul and Sarah's new book, now check out their website
If you're in the States, you can contribute to the National Survey of Entrepreneurial Parents (EPs). The results of the survey will form the basis of their next book
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HAPPY FATHERS' DAY
New laws regulating shopping for gifts on-line
 
 
It's Fathers' Day on June 17th.

Buying gifts on-line for dad? Find gift inspiration, fun links and natty things for the kids to make for parents' days in our on-line shop.

Following an EU directive, there are new regulations in the UK and other European countries covering shopping by mail order. This includes shopping on-line.

As a purchaser, you are best protected if you use a credit card but make sure you keep records. Check out your new rights with this well-designed website. If you are selling goods or services then you need to read the latest guidance from the DTI
 
 



 
  Save yourself the hassle and still make money selling gifts from your website. We've got all the gen on being an affiliate Magic Button closed down last week but you can sign up for free with a range of other thriving intermediaries and it costs you nothing. It's a fun way to add some 'stickiness' to your website but don't expect to make your fortune.

You can sign up with big retailers such as Tesco and BT, or you can support small businesses - homeworkers like us - or anything in between!
 
 



 
  BEST TIPS for Affiliates  
 
1. Don't put a zillion banners all on one page
2. Choose products and services that 'fit' with your website
3. Like the product you sell - why should anyone else buy it if you don't!!
4. Text links work best and...
5. Don't expect to make a fortune (yet)!

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PROCRASTINATION ERADICATION
Make this week your Procrastination Eradiction Week!

Weekly Action Steps
 
 

1. Make one list of everything you've been procrastinating about. Keep just one list in one place so you can track the results of your Procrastination Eradication activities.

2. You must not add anything else to your plate this week. No new projects. Nothing.

3. If something new comes up that you can't pass up, schedule in time to do it NEXT WEEK. You cannot say yes to anything new this week. Focus your attention on completing projects and things that are left undone.

4. Walk around saying to yourself over and over again, "Procrastination Eradication. Procrastination Eradication." This mantra will help you stay on track.

5. Now it's time to get to work. We know you can do it!
Good luck this week!

The Work Less, Make More Group
 
 



Have you found a procrastination eradicator that really works for you?
Share your experiences with us at Homeworking Parents
 
   
 
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THIS MONTHS' TOP TEN
Reasons People Don't Live Their Dreams
 
 
There are still many people who are not living their dreams or have not gotten on a path to do so. If you are not living your dream, maybe one of these reasons will ring true for you. Awareness is the first step.

1. They don't believe they can live their dreams. Either their belief system has them believing they cannot do what they love and earn a living, or they do not believe enough in their dream.

2. They aren't clear about what would fulfill them - or do nothing out of fear of doing the wrong thing.

3. They think they don't have a dream.

4. They don't believe they can make enough money living their dream.

5. They appear to be lazy or lacking in ambition. They may have simply become resigned, fearful, or depressed but it all boils down to the same thing - not taking action toward that which will fulfill you.

6. They think they don't have the time to think about or start living their dream ....they need to eliminate a lot before beginning to rebuild.

7. They still believe hard work will pay off ...work smart not hard!

8. They are afraid. ...of failure, of success, of rejection, of being different.

9. They don't love themselves enough ...to be Self-ish.

10. They are not ready ...to make the investment in themselves to get turned around.

Based on a list created by Susan Kennedy. Susan can be reached at coachsk@onramp.net Copyright 1998, Coach U, all rights reserved.
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BECOME A PRACTICAL DREAMER
...and find Success
 
 
1. Do you dare? Or does it seem like a waste to invest in seemingly impractical and unrealistic ventures?

2. Are you in touch with your desires? Or do you feel lost, wondering what you could do, should do or might do?

3. Can you imagine? Can you envision your dream? Or do you have trouble imagining your life the way you’re like it to be?

4. Can you believe? Are you convinced your dream is possible? Might it seem possible perhaps for others but not for you?

5. Are you committed? Have you decided that you’re going to create your dreams? Or are you still riding the fence, considering possibilities or waiting to “see what happens”?

6. Are you connected? Can you allow your intuition to guide you to whatever you need to achieve you dreams? Or do you feel like you must have a step-by-step road map?

7. Can you use your reality as a tool? Are you able to accept your existing reality? Or are you busy fighting and resenting your present situation?

8. Can you feel satisfied? Do you allow yourself to savor the satisfaction of what you accomplish each step along the way? Or are you always driving yourself to do better and achieve more?

9. Can you move on? Are you open when the time comes to new dreams, welcoming of what comes next? Or do you get stuck in pursing past dreams, afraid to let go of what has been for what could be?

This is an extract from a new book from Paul and Sarah Edwards, US experts on working from home. See our bookshop and our websites for parents for more from Paul and Sarah.
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  MAKE A DIFFERENCE
SHARE YOUR DREAM
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You'll make a difference for yourself when you define your dream and share it with others.

What have you done different in your life to make your dream come true?

Share your experiences with us at ThinkSuccess.net
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That's all for now!

This ezine comes to you from Homeworking Parents and is edited by Sue Wentworth-Sheilds MSc MInstD FRSA

Information about sponsorship, advertising and article submissions to workingparents@mothers.co.uk


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© Copyright 2001 Sue Wentworth-Sheilds

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FROM THE EDITOR
May the Homeworking Parents newsletter help to make your working day more productive and your hours of parenting in keeping with your aspirations for health, happiness and success.
PRODUCTIVITY PRINCIPLE
Uncaptured, unclarified, and therefore unmanaged things you implicitly have agreed to do something about own a piece of you, and give you no rest. Naming your stuff gives you power over it. The best and most productive way to do your work is to be its master, not its slave.
See Dave Allen's website for more productivity principles
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