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It's important to keep healthy as an older mum. There's more to feeling TATTY (Tired all the Time!) than a sleepless child and you may need additional supplements to fight off the flu and the ton of viruses circulating round the school and playgroup!
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on being an older mum
(in association with the mothers 35+ website)
Find a book
Fight Fat
Pamela Peeke
Fight Fat After Forty
The Revolutionary Three-Pronged Approach That Will Break Your Stress-Fat Cycle and Make You Healthy, Fit, and Trim for Life

Here's an extract.
See Dr Peeke's website
Check out the

Carbohydrate Addicts LifeSpan program
- a Personalized Plan for Becoming Slim, Fit and Healthy in Your 40s, 50s, 60s and Beyond.

Big fuss on Oprah about the effectiveness of this diet which links insulin and carbohydrates. Check out theCarbohydrate Addicts website for more.
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If, like me, you are older and have waited to have your first child until your late 30s or early 40s, take heart!

The risks to healthy women are minimal, the chances of chromosomal problems are small and can be detected early, and many complications can be prevented by good healthcare. See more...

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  Fertility and older mums  
 
Did you know that we come into this world with a finite number of eggs? If you are concerned about conceiving then check this on-line chapter from How to have a baby (overcoming infertility) but be aware that having children later in life could trigger early menopause...see What Older Mums are not told and check out our section on the Mumopause

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  Selfish?  
  Are you suffering from biological_clock_anxiety? Having a child later in life is a surprisingly controversial step - some say it is selfish to create a child with a parent who is old enough to be a grandparent but some sayolder mothers make better mothers

Most older mothers agree that they have less energy but more patience and 'nouse' to bring to parenting. A more stable income is also quoted as a benefit as well as a partner who is less involved in establishing his career and thus has more time for family matters.

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  The Sandwich Generation  
  Like many mothers of 'a certain age', you are probably also looking after ageing parents. Check out Age Concern and Help the Aged for advice on home help, social support, sheltered housing and residential care. The government is promising a fairer deal for responsible elderlies who have saved for their old age.

Rita Kennen writes on the sandwich generation...

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  Mixing the generations  
  Our children may be the same age and play together, but the mums can be generations apart!

One of the things which took me by surprise as an older mum was discovering that younger mums did see me as part of a different generation!! When you think about it, being old enough to be another mum's mum will inevitably put you in a different pigeon-hole for some - even though our children may be the same age. Many mums who started early and then began again will have two generations of children in their close family. It's even more challenging when the other mum is your own daughter!

I finally found a role as an 'older sister' to these younger mums but missed the mutual support that I discovered mums my own age could give - until I met a few - so it's a good idea to seek out other older mums who will have a similar life experience to yours.

Rita Kennan writes on living in the neighbourhood called motherhood

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Here you'll find a range of products carefully selected by the Women's Nutritional Advisory Service.

The WNAS was originally formed in 1984 as the PMT Advisory Service. It has evolved to provide advice on the menopause, irritable bowel syndrome and other women's health issues as well as individual consultations at clinics in London and Sussex.

WNAS believes that the key to optimum health lies in a healthy lifestyle and a balanced diet which ensures an adequate intake of essential nutrients.

And NOW you can join the WNAS Club!
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Early and Middle Perimenopause followed by late perimenopause and then the menopause proper...how many stages are now recognised - but not, probably, by your own doctor!

Women start to get the symptoms of the menopause during middle perimenopause--roughly mid-30s to age 50--and frequently seek health care advice for erratic menstrual periods, sleep disturbances, hot flashes, mood swings, night sweats, mental confusion, muscle or joint pains, urinary incontinence and vaginal dryness.

Why do we need to see a doctor? Not because we have a disease to be made better, but to make our lives more comfortable, and to give us more control over what is happening to us externally, through symptom management.

Don't suffer in silence!

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A series of articles on Women's Wire
Focus on Forty
'Midlife' doesn't mean what it used to
Vavo
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TheBigFiveOh.com
I don't feel 50!
Mature Times
U3A
Babyboomers Bistro
Who are the Babyboomers, anyway?
Third Age

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